Poems For Bereavement

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Your Grief

​lily grow,​pull the rope ​when you wake ​
​Gate gate paragate ​, ​

​compost does the ​To pull and ​
​There are days ​of all beings.​websites: ​

​As out of ​the right time​or undone.​
​in the community ​Information obtained from ​Diane Bodach​And will find ​
​was left unsaid ​I take refuge ​

​but humus; rich, black and sweet, ready for seed.​All the time.​way​For all that ​
​is.​not weed,​return​
​More than you, it knows its ​

For Those Who Have Died

​of absence deepens.​

​in that which ​until you are ​
​Has awaited your ​
​faithful to itself.​When the silence ​
​I take refuge ​
​Burns and purifies ​
​one​Sorrow will remain ​
​taken from you​
​awakening.​fire​
​where your loved ​is that​

​what has been ​in our shared ​Water with tears, while the alchemical ​
​In your soul ​depend on now ​
​No one knows ​I take refuge ​rent.​

​hearth​All you can ​

​others too,​is passing us.​
​twisted thorned prunings, which your heart ​
​to enter the ​
​to trust yourself.​loss has wounded ​

Kindness

​and all that ​

​out desire,​And be able ​It becomes hard ​
​And though this ​we are passing​
​despair, ashes of burnt ​in the air​by grief.​
​loss;​on all that ​
​dry bones of ​From that gap ​
​You are ambushed ​grown heavy with ​
​kindly​and mean intent​eyes​
​warning,​Your heart has ​
​a little more ​mind, dung of low ​
​To wean your ​Suddenly with no ​
​no confidence​we might look ​
​green weeds of ​have learned​
​or encounter​Where words have ​

​enough​good gardener, gather rich​And you will ​
​middle of work ​voice down​could slow down ​your griefs, but like the ​
​loss will heal​Until in the ​echo drags your ​
​But if we ​aside​The wound of ​
​to function well​And some dead ​
​imagined better place.​off. Therefore lay not ​is done,​
​You are able ​your eyes unsure;​hurrying to some ​

​the world casts ​work of grief ​back,​
​Your thoughts make ​alike,​that which​
​And when the ​have your heart ​
​you becomes fragile,​drivers and passengers ​and transformed, taking refuge in ​
​departed;​Days when you ​
​The ground beneath ​later,​it, fortified,​
​form of your ​tide of loss.​strange,​
​sooner rather than ​gives itself, is buried in ​
​With the invisible ​Onto the black ​Your life becomes ​passing that way, of course​
​earth, excrement of worms, but completely​acquaintance​
​thrown back​someone you love,​We are all ​
​low​Gradually, you will learn ​And you are ​
​When you lose ​them.​
​not spurn the ​its last drop.​

Passenger Pigeon

​breaks​

​Between Us​last to join ​can be born. The seed does ​
​Has reduced to ​Until the moment ​
​Bless the Space ​
​She was the ​

​lives, beauty​hill of tears​
​fullness of life,​John O’Donohue from To ​thousands.​
​refuse of our ​Until that coiled ​
​Again inside the ​

​parasamgate bodhi svaha!​they flew to ​so from the ​
​of grief​up happy;​
​in dozens and ​millions​
​cousins, uncles and aunts.​Martha nor any ​with you everywhere​

​to say​at bread,​
​only kindness that ​the size of ​
​to it till ​sorrow as the ​
​him alive.​who journeyed through ​

​You must see ​in a white ​Before you learn ​
​will never stop,​between the regions ​all this must ​
​a weakened broth.​things,​
​Naomi Shihab Nye​thing, love,​

​a gift to ​has lived in ​But a holy ​
​To love, to hope, to dream,​Tis a fearful ​the two as ​
​paralyzed.​If it were ​face you've been wanting ​
​up to where ​All too soon ​

On Grief

​of hundreds of ​outliving parents, brothers and sisters,​I never met ​

​and then goes ​of the world ​
​day to gaze ​makes sense anymore,​
​and you see ​You must speak ​
​you must know ​breath that kept ​
​was someone​the road.​where the Indian ​
​the window forever.​thinking the bus ​
​landscape can be​and carefully saved,​like salt in ​
​you must lose ​touch.​Tis a human ​
​Your word was ​For your life ​Love,​
​touch.​Judah (Yehuda) HaLevi​

​expand​you would be ​opens and closes.​

​here's the joyful ​a mirror​pairs,​
​in their passing.​in the tens ​
​a century ago,​Larry Robinson​
​looking for,​from the crowd ​
​out into the ​only kindness that ​
​of all sorrows​up with sorrow.​deepest thing inside,​
​and the simple ​how he too ​
​the side of ​you must travel ​will stare out ​
​and ride​how desolate the ​
​what you counted ​moment​

​is​What death can ​
​brings painful joy.​lifted me;​death can touch.​
​fools, this,​What death can ​
​as birdwings.​small contracting and ​
​open,​and closes and ​
​instead,​what you've lost holds ​singly and in ​
​sky​her tribe numbered​
​She died alone ​or a friend.​

​you have been ​raises its head​
​and sends you ​Then it is ​catches the thread ​
​You must wake ​kindness as the ​plans​
​be you,​lies dead by ​
​of kindness​maize and chicken​
​How you ride ​know​
​in your hand,​dissolve in a ​
​what kindness really ​To love​To remember this ​
​You laugh once ​To love what ​A thing for ​
​To love​coordinated​
​is in every ​

Grief

​or always stretched ​

​Your hand opens ​Expecting the worst, you look and ​Your grief for ​
​that further shore,​and darkened the ​Once she and ​
​of her kin.​like a shadow ​It is I ​
​only kindness that ​

​ties your shoes​the cloth.​
​your voice​other deepest thing.​
​Before you know ​the night with ​how this could ​
​poncho​the tender gravity ​

​the passengers eating ​of kindness.​go so you ​
​What you held ​feel the future ​Before you know ​
​A holy thing,​me.​
​me​thing,​

​And oh, to lose.​thing​beautifully balanced and ​
​Your deepest presence ​



​always a fist ​to see.​
​you're bravely working.​
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