• How to write a funny 16th, 30th, 40th, 50th, 60th, 70th, 80th, 85th , 90th,etc birthday speech toast for your brother or sister
• Birthday speech examples for your brother or sister you can model your toast after
• What to say about your brother or sister on his or her birthday
…plus a whole lot more
Most siblings go to great lengths to surprise their brothers and sisters on their birthdays.
If you have ever done that, that's good of youbecause birthdays are our birthrights and you have to do all you can to make it a very special one when your brother or sister is celebrating that special day.
For example, you can gift your sister a birthday cake or even give your brother a nice watch.
But as you are pretty much aware, these gifts can lose their appeal in no time at all.
However, the written word will always stand the test of time. Which is why it’s so important to write a sweet birthday tribute for your sister or brother even if he or she is celebrating his or her 16th, 30th, 40th, 50th, 60th, 70th, 80th, 85th , 90th,etc birthday.
Take Note of These Before You Even Start To Write and Your Speech Will Be a Hit
Now, I want to show you how you can tap into the power of the written word. But before we do that, let us consider a few things you should take note of so you can make your sibling proud with your birthday tribute.
The following are myths that always stand in the way when people have to deliver any kind of speech and tips to help bust them.
First and foremost, most people think they have to be good writers to craft brilliant speeches. That’s not entirely true although being great with words can help to a certain extent.
You see, as long as you are able to capture what you wish to say about your brother or sister in a very coherent manner, you will have no problem capturing the attention of the audience.
Second, most people feel a sense of dread when they imagine themselves standing before a group of people to present a message. It even gets worse if they are about to deliver a very personal speech.
If you have a poor history of past speaking failures, then you have got to put the past behind you and just focus on what's ahead of you.
As you keep your gaze fixed on what you want to say no matter the obstacles, you will be filled with a new surge of energy that will prop you up for success. This always works even if you are nervous as a deer in the headlights.
Now, let’s see
How to Write a Heartfelt and Inspiring Birthday Toast for Your Brother or Sister
A reason why most people find it so hard to express their thoughts on paper is because they start to pen down their thoughts without first finding out how it is done.
It’s just like someone planning to travel to another country without having a solid plan in hand.
Video # 2: Birthday Speech Example for Sister
Did you enjoy those clips? I did!
Now, let us also look at two written examples. Afterwards, I will break it down step by step so you can figure out how to write the content of your birthday speech for your brother or sister.
Here you go:
Birthday Speech Example/ Template for a Brother
Good evening and thanks everyone for coming. I am Mike, brother of the birthday guy.
My older brother has always held a special place in my heart. When I look back at how the wonderful gifts that have come my way, I always like to think he’s the most priceless gift I have ever received.
He’s always being such a great role model for every brother because he’s so loving, protective and supportive.
I remember...
You’ve been a blessing not only to me but everyone you’ve ever come into contact with. God only knows what my life would have been like if you were not in it. Thank you for always being there for me and giving me your support and strength.
May your life be filled with sweet moments, happy smiles and blissful memories. May this day give you a new beginning in life.
Happy birthday and enjoy your day as much as you can!
Birthday Speech Example/ Template for a Sister
Today I have the pleasure of watching my dear elder sister turn another year older! The fact that I am the first born is plain to see as I have more grays and wrinkles than the birthday girl!
All throughout childhood we always had each other’s back, and it’s so great to know that even as we grow older nothing has changed in the least. I still remember the thrill and sense of excitement I felt when she first came home as a little baby girl.
As she grew older, she became a min version of me and we were like twins as we grow older. She was more like my shadow. I can’t comprehend how my life would have been without you in it. Through you, I have experienced some of the best moments in life and I know there will be more to come.
I am so blessed to have such an incredible sister like you. I’ll always admire and love you and hold your back!
I’m wishing you an amazing and beautiful birthday today, sis! Happy birthday and God bless you!
Both were short and to the point! Now, let’s start with what I told you about earlier.
If you look at both carefully, you will realize both templates have an introduction, body, and conclusion.
To make the writing of your birthday message a breeze, you can split the sections into these three parts and take it from there.
So, let’s first start with the opening remarks or address. As you have seen from the opening addresses above, it has two basic elements.
The first part mainly comprises a short self-introduction as well as expression of gratitude to your brother or sister for asking you to deliver the speech as well as the party planners if you know who they are.
If your parents or other siblings and their families are around, you can acknowledge their presence. When you are done, you can dive right in with a catch phrase or statement. This is where most speakers fail to make the desired impression.
How then do you make that impact and get everyone to hang on to everything you say? Don’t worry because these simple ideas will help you do justice to this very crucial part of your presentation.
First, you can simply copy any of the examples above if you really have nothing to say or you are stuck for ideas.
Second, you can come up with something funny by playing a funny video to entertain the guests before you actually deliver your birthday message for your brother or sister.
Third, if you are a Christian or the birthday celebrant is one, you can begin your speech with a scripture or bible verse. For example you may start with any of these bible quotes:
a. Psalm 133
King James Version
133 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.
King James Version
136 O give thanks unto the Lord; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.
2 O give thanks unto the God of gods: for his mercy endureth for ever.
3 O give thanks to the Lord of lords: for his mercy endureth for ever.
4 To him who alone doeth great wonders: for his mercy endureth for ever.
5 To him that by wisdom made the heavens: for his mercy endureth for ever.
6 To him that stretched out the earth above the waters: for his mercy endureth for ever.
• John 3: 36
36 Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them
Now, let’s try to use the first verse to write a few lines...just the intro!
Scripture says how good and pleasant it is to dwell in unity. Tonight, we have come together to give thanks to God for the gift of life and to celebrate with Mark.
Did you see how I came up with that short example?
Fourth, if you want to deliver an emotional tribute, you may start with quotes. It could be quotes about friendship or life or anything you can imagine.
Below are some good ones you can use.
• ‘’The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart." — Elisabeth Foley
• "Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you; spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life." — Amy Poehler
• They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel." — Carl W. Buechner
Fifth, you can dive right in with a funny story about what happened prior to your brother or sister’s birth if you are an older sibling or have been told what happened on that fateful day.
Sixth, this is rarely done. But if you can find a way to tie your brother or sister’s birthday to an event in history, then your toast will be very unique and memorable.
Ok, let me illustrate with this example.
My brother’s birthday is a very special day. Come to think of it. On this day, the great novelist Terry Simples was born. On this same day, my brother Dan also made his grand entry into this world and as you all know, on this beautiful day 50 years ago, my younger brother arrived two years after I did.
He tells me there’s this kind and gentle person who also shares the same birthday. But he chose to be with us today and defer his to the next weekend because of the love and respect he has for his friend.
Where is this very wonderful friend? Yeah, there he is. Can you give him a hand?
With that being said, let us now turn our attention to this:
How to Write the Content or Body of Your Birthday Speech for Your Brother or Sister
I always cringe with disappointment and frustration whenever someone writes to me and ask me how to put together a speech for them.
On the surface, it looks very easy to write a good speech. But most people struggle to get it done because they don’t have a plan of action.
To pour your heart out, you first need a workable plan you so you can come up with best ideas. This is what I recommend you do to get your thoughts flowing freely.
First, you have got to decide on the theme and style of your speech. The style is simply how you want it to sound. Do you want it to sound poetic, narrative, sentimental, rhyming, funny or didactic? Please decide and stick with one or more of these styles.
Second, you have to decide how long or short you want your toast for your brother or sister to last. You really don’t have to worry about the length or duration of what you wish to say. As long as it is engaging, everyone will be happy to listen to you.
Third, gather the right facts and make sure you present them coherently. If you are an older brother or sister, then you can say a whole lot about his or her life.
You can get these stories by doing a little brainstorming to get your creative ideas flowing. Then, you choose from the pool of stories that you think can best help you to say something about your brother or sister.
Ok…If you still don’t know where to start from, then just answer the following questions. Your answers can be used as starting points for the rest of your speech.
Here you go:
• How did you feel when your brother or sister was born?
• What was life like with him or her growing up?
• What are some memorable events you can remember?
• What are some funny memories about him or her?
• What are his or her views about life and growing old?
Action Tip: Write down answers to the above questions and use your answers to write a rough draft of your speech. When it’s over, you can later go back to edit the piece until it comes out the way you want it.
Now, let’s turn our focus to…
Most speeches often end with the same tone and emotions because we tend to copy each other's styles and examples a great deal.
But there are always ways of making the conclusion of every presentation unique and different from any other.
I want to make this aspect of the writing process very easy for you so that you can end your tribute on a very happy note.
First, you can gift your sibling very special gift and you will make the event a very memorable one.
Second, you can end by singing the happy birthday song. Here you simply make it your own by substituting a few words here and there.
Here’s an example
Happy birthday to my brother John (sister Joanna)
Happy birthday to my brother John (sister Joanna)
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to my precious brother (sister)
How old are you now?
How old are you now?
(Response)
I am 17 years old now
I am 17 years old now
You can swap 1 and 7
And you will know that I am 71 years old
I am not a small boy!
Just look at my gray hair
And you will know that I am an old man!
Hip hip hip Hurrrrrrrrrrrrray!!!
Did you see how I personalize that song? Can you give it a try?
PS:Did You Know This Simple And Very Easy-To-Follow Plan Can Help You Come Up With The Best Ever Birthday Speech For Your Brother or Sister?
Dear Loving Brother or Sister,
The most precious gift you can gift your brother or sister are words because whatever you give him or her will fade sooner rather than later.
But your words will forever live in your brother or sister's heart and ultimately propel him or her to be a much better person down road.
Unfortunately, many siblings are not so good with words and it gets a bit terrifying when you imagine what to say before your own family, siblings and loved ones who will be looking forward to hearing from you a very heartfelt birthday toast.
Well, we know how hard coming up with the right words can be. So, we are giving you a chance to come up with something inspiring, funny and memorable without pulling your hair out!
Just imagine how you would feel when your brother or sister or even family comes up to congratulate you after you have given a great birthday speech!
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• Yes, if you are overwhelmed by the pressures of work and don’t have the time to put together a very meaningful speech, so you can have peace of mind
• Yes, if you want your family, your siblings, and other party guests to shower you with very sincere compliments…just imagine how you will feel
• Yes, if you are not good with words and you feel you’re not a natural writer and you are struggling to find the right words but still want to give a great birthday speech.
• Yes, if you get so scared anytime you’re asked to say something before an audience and you really want to save yourself from any form of embarrassment on your brother's or sister's birthday.
• Yes, if you are not too eloquent or not too sure if you are on the right track.
• Yes, if you absolutely hate speaking in public or feel this is not your thing but you want to make your sibling feel very proud on their special day.
• Yes, if you have a day or less to the party and you are worried that you might make some horrible mistakes
• Yes, if you are a good speaker but you still want someone to look over or review what you've come up with!
Also, envision being patiently guided to say something that will leave a favorable impression on the mind of your listeners.
And also imagine the thrill and feeling of excitement and pride you’re going to experience when the audience leap onto their feet and scream and shouts and even sing your praises…..your brother or sister will be so proud of you
Won’t you love that? I hope you will...
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''Hi Dan, The speech was well received. Everything went well''- Marshall, Australia<
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Ok, I am Interested, What’s the Cost?
Why? As you know, the current health crisis has caused severe hardships for most people.
Precious lives have been lost, jobs wiped out and families displaced, leaving everyone wondering what the future holds.
Yet, birthday celebrations are going on and people have to still inspire and motivate birthday celebrants with the right words.
Nonetheless, not everyone could afford our services even before the pandemic suddenly hit us.
So, we have dropped our normal rates so you can simply pay what you want after you have got your beautiful speech.
Please note: When life gets back to normal, this offer will be scrapped for good.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the event is in the future.
Even though we are going through this crazy time, if you do a poor job at it, your speech will be captured on video, and viewers will forever remember what you said and would not attribute your poor performance to the fact there was a deadly disease in town.
So, please take advantage of it now even if the birthday is in the future by simply paying what you want after you get your beautiful speech.
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