Q: My granddaughter does not want to baptize her new baby. Will the baby go to heaven if it dies?
—Worried Grandma
A: Congratulations on your new grandchild! Life is such a beautiful gift from God. I know many people who would love to have children but are unable to. Likewise, there are many people facing difficult pregnancies or challenging circumstances once their child is born. I don’t know your granddaughter’s situation, but I hope her child is healthy. Your question jumps from the birth of a new baby to the possibility of death rather quickly. Is your great-grandchild in poor health? If so, I am very sorry for the challenges you and your family are experiencing and understand you may be anxious about religious matters.
I also believe when it comes to infants who are completely innocent and just beginning their life’s journey, they are completely wrapped in God’s unfaltering grace, love, and mercy. God desires joy, peace, and salvation for us all, even more so for the most vulnerable and innocent. Take comfort in how God has revealed God’s very self to us. A God who "is love" sustains all things in love. We have a very strong foundation for hope.
If your grandchild is in good health then, I have to ask, why are we talking about death? Now is the time to celebrate life! This is a new beginning! Your granddaughter is discerning her values as a mother. This is an important part of her journey. You may or may not agree with her values, but it would be good to lovingly listen to her, so that you might understand her better. Conflict over religious values will not draw you closer. Even worse, it could make her less inclined to spend time with you, and that could mean less time with your great-grandchild.
If you live your faith, your granddaughter will take notice. It can be a slow process, but remember God is present throughout. God guides each of us along our own unique path. Some of us have a difficult enough time trying to figure out our own path let alone directing some else’s path. Let God guide the bigger picture and take joy in accompanying your granddaughter and this beautiful new child along their way. There are many wonderful things you will discover together, if you are open to it. Enjoy the journey.
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card
Before delving into specific ideas for the text, here are some factors to consider as you think about what to include in the baby shower card:
Simple Baby Shower Card Messages
If you’re not a wordsmith and just want to write something simple and sweet in the baby shower card, or you’re not super close to the mom-to-be, here are some messages to consider:
"I’m so happy for you."
"I can’t wait to meet your baby."
"Wishing both you and your new baby all the best."
"Your little family is about to get bigger and cuter."
"Wishing you moments of joy with your new little baby."
Baby Shower Card Messages Focusing on the Gift
Since a baby shower involves showering the mom-to-be with gifts as well as love and support, you may consider mentioning the gift you've chosen in your baby shower card message. Here are some ideas:
"Wrapping your gift almost made me keel over with cuteness overload. Just giving you a warning!"
"I’m overjoyed to shower you with this special gift I know you’ll love."
"When I was raising my little ones, I couldn’t survive without this item. I think you’ll find it valuable too."
"So happy to be attending your baby shower, and excited to be helping you load up on some goodies for the baby!"
Funny Baby Shower Card Messages
Being a parent can be a challenging job, and sometimes it’s nice to just have a laugh about it. If you’re absolutely sure the recipient of your baby shower card appreciates your style of humor, try one of these messages:
"Hope you have a nice baby!"
"In just a few months you’ll become a stain removal expert!"
"Say hello to your bundle of joy, and goodbye to sleeping in ever again."
"Thanks in advance for naming the baby after me!"
"Congratulations on being so creative! Can’t wait to see your latest project!"
"Don’t worry. After they turn 18, you can kick them out!"
"I can’t wait to see who the baby resembles more!"
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for a Boy
If you know the mom-to-be is having a baby boy, you could choose one of these messages for the baby shower card:
"Oh boy! We can’t wait to meet your little guy."
"We hope your little boy is just as handsome as his dad."
"Snips and snails, and puppy dogs' tails — get ready for boyhood!"
"Your little boy is lucky to have two amazing parents who love him. Congratulations!"
"Here’s to lots of fun and joy with your little boy!"
"May your baby boy bring you loads of joy and troublemaking."
"It’s beautiful seeing your family grow. Cheers to a baby boy."
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for a Girl
If you know the mom-to-be is have a little girl, here are some sweet wishes you can include in the baby shower card:
"Here’s to a bubbly baby girl to love and spoil. Congratulations!"
"Sugar and spice. May your new baby girl bring you everything nice!
"We’re all tickled pink to hear you’re having a baby girl. Congratulations!"
"Little girls grow up so fast. One minute you’re dressing her in princess outfits, and the next minute she’s trying on bridal gowns. Enjoy every minute."
"We hope your little girl will be beautiful inside and out, just like her mother."
"May your pink bundle be showered with everything splendid."
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for Twins
If the mom-to-be has revealed she’s having twins or triplets (or even more), you could acknowledge this in the card. Here are some ideas of what to say:
"Double the baby, double the excitement, and double the trouble!"
"Sometimes the best things come in pairs."
"One baby is special, but two babies are super special."
"Now you have two reasons to smile!"
"Cheers to your babies!"
"Wishing you double the congratulations."
"Could there be anything better than two babies? Oh, maybe three!"
"Let me know if you need help counting all those fingers and toes."
"We can’t wait to see double the cuteness."
"Now you can look forward to four arms hugging you!"
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card for a Close Friend
If you’re a close friend or relative of the mom-to-be and would like to send a personal message of support, here are some ideas:
"Congratulations on your baby’s arrival! I know that you’ll be a terrific mom."
"From one mother to another, the moment you set eyes on your little one, you’ll be smitten forever."
"The unconditional love you’ll feel for your new baby will be something you’ve never felt before."
"After reading books and articles on motherhood, you’ll think you’ve prepared for everything, but the best lessons come with time — and I’ll be there for you whenever you need me."
"Congratulations! Mommyhood looks so good on you."
What to Write in a Baby Shower Card From Grandparents
If you’re one of the grandparents-to-be, you may have something special in mind for your message, especially if the mom-to-be is your daughter. Here are some phrases for welcoming a new grandson or granddaughter:
"We are overjoyed to welcome our baby’s very own baby into the world."
"Don’t you worry — we’ve babyproofed the house and have been practicing singing lullabies. Grandparenthood, here we come!"
"Babies don’t come with instruction manuals. But that’s what grandparents are for!"
"Grandbabies are always welcome in our home!"
"Remember, you can’t return them when they misbehave, but you can always drop them off with us!"
The Bottom Line
Composing the perfect message for a baby shower card won’t seem difficult once you start, especially if you think about the relationship you have with the mom-to-be and/or the dad-to-be. Also, if you have any details about whether the mom-to-be is having a boy or girl, these can provide inspiration for the message. Don’t be afraid to craft a truly personalized message, adding a funny story, a personal anecdote, something positive about the mom-to-be, or a unique insight from your own experience as a parent. This time can be both exciting and scary for new parents — and a little humor or a kind message of encouragement may mean a lot to them. If you want to call attention to a special gift you’ve purchased, feel free to tailor your message to include that in the baby shower card. If you’re still hunting for a present, check out our massive list of great baby shower gift ideas.
Grandparent Quotes And Poems
We love you! Find a collection of inspiring grandparent quotes and sayings about grandparents and grandchildren. Share them with your loved ones.
Grandma & Grandpa are simply the best!
Sunday, 12 September is
National Grandparents Day 2021 in the USA
Parents may use these verses for
• some cute wall art to give to the (new) grandparents (birth of their grandchild, birthday present, Easter gift, Christmas gift, etc.)
• a 'thank you' to your parents or to your in-laws
• a congratulations card for the (new) grandparents
• a Grandparents Day gift
• of course all these qualify for great-grandparents, too!
Grandparents and great-grandparents may use these quotes for
• your photo album and for your pictures with your grandkids
Just when we thought we are too old to fall in love again - we became grandparents!
Having grandkids is a blessing. Helping to shape their lives is an honor.
A grandparent's love is strong and deep - filled with memories to cherish and keep!
Without our grandchildren our house would be clean and our wallets would be full. But our hearts would be so much more empty.
You've got the whole world in your arms when you hold your grandchild.
Perfect love sometimes does not come until the first grandchild. (Welsh proverb)
No joy on earth brings greater pleasure than a grand-child to love and treasure!
A granddaughter / grandson reaches for your hand and touches your heart!
Our grandchildren give us gifts every day: They give us smiles for our faces, warm feelings for our hearts, joy for our souls and sweet dreams for our nights.
To be a grandparent is to experience the joy of unconditional love.
Grandparents allow everything that parents don't. They pamper and spoil their grandchildren and forgive everything. They are the nicest persons in the world!
Cute Gifts With Quotes
A parent's job is to educate, motivate and critique. A grandparent's job is to cuddle, pamper and spoil!
All granddaughters and grandsons are brilliant, beautiful and smart. And take after their grand-parents!
When God made our grandchildren, he was just showing off!
Only the best parents get promoted to grand-parents!
Grandparents are actually retired but often still work part-time, spoiling their grandkids!
Grandparents exercise: kiss and squeeze, kiss and squeeze, kiss and squeeze... . Doesn't do a thing for your weight, but oh what it does for your heart!
T.G.I.F- - These grandparents are fabulous!
Keep calm... and hug your grandchildren!
Mommy and daddy know a lot. But grandma and granddad know everything!
Grandparents love little hand prints everywhere.
Grandparents: So easy to operate, even a child can do it!
More Quotes
When grandparents enter the door, discipline flies out the window. (Ogden Nash)
We don't just put our hearts into loving our grandchildren - they become our hearts...
Grandkids are like flowers... Watch them bloom and water them with love!
Grandparents, like heroes, are as necessary to a child's growth as vitamins.
There is no way to be a perfect grandparent... But a million ways to be a good one!
Children are the rainbow of life. Grandchildren are the pot of gold!
Grandkids are like snowflakes... Each one is beautifully unique. (unknown)
Grandparenting is like falling in love. If you haven't experienced it, you can't imagine how fantastic it feels!
Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children. (Alex Hale)
Blessed are those who spoil and snuggle, hug and hope, pray and pamper. For they shall be called grandma and grandpa!
Simple moments with your grandchildren often become priceless memories.
A grandchild is a treasure whose worth you cannot measure, except by the love in your heart.
Between the earth and the sky above, nothing can match a grandmother's love!
Grandchildren make the world a little softer, a little kinder, a little warmer.
My grandkids might be out of my sight, but they are never out of my mind or out of my heart. (Jane Craft)
It's amazing how grandparents suddenly seem so young once you become one...
Grandparents Poems
Grandparents are a delightful blend of:
laughter,
caring deeds,
wonderful stories
and love!
G is for giving, they are always there
R is for richness, so beyond compare
A is for adoration, for one and for all
N is for nice, to receive their call
D is for delightful, it's their special way
P is for perfect, each and every day
A is for angels, precious like gold
R is for radiant, makes life a glow
E is for endure, all that may come,
N is for noble, always standing strong
T is for tender, the softness of touch
S is for special, we love them so much.
Grandchild's Hand
The promise of tomorrow and the hope of dreams come true,
a reminder of the childhood that's still a part of you.
The wonder of a miracle from which this love began,
there is so much found in the touch
of holding a grandchild's hand.
(unknown)
Side by side,
or far apart,
my grandparents
are always in my heart!
I hope you enjoyed my collection of grandparent quotes. If you know some more sayings, please use the 'contact me' form to let me know so I can share them here. Thank you very much!