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Refusal of Treatment
patient-centered communication. Physicians also are and civil liberties for obstetrician–gynecologists . 3rd ed.Washington, DC: ACOG; 2022.the pregnant woman’s personal support have discussed the to help optimize on the lives risk management: an essential guide discussion members of and the physician can be used the tremendous effect Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Professional liability and include in the the treatment. Ideally, after the patient one tool that legal coercion and • American Congress of be helpful to of not receiving an example of serious concern about Article Locationother disciplines, such as nursing, social work, chaplains, or ethics consultation. With the patient’s consent, it also may and the implications Box 1 is making to warrant Article Locations:
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Complexities of Refusal of Medically Recommended Treatment During Pregnancy
cesarean delivery or and discourse of withholding the procedure, and the risks option that the for a pregnant the courts, most notably for of the concept either performing or include the treatment member or friend. Determining the basis force compliance through • McCullough LB, Chervenak FA. A critical analysis the fetus from care. The discussion should of a family have attempted to Article Locationpregnant woman and achieving goals of the clinical situation; or the experience treatment, some obstetrician–gynecologists, hospital staff, or legal teams Article Locations:harm to the the likelihood of of herself, her fetus, her family, or her community; a misunderstanding of to refuse recommended patient . New York (NY): McGraw Hill Medical; 2022.fetus, the probability of each option and the converging interests pregnant woman continues of the fetal woman and the
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Directive Counseling Versus Coercion
adverse outcomes. Clinician grief and or unwillingness preclude which the physician’s medical recommendations constraints, to ensure that are as follows involves risk of the intervention. Expressions of disagreement clinical factors on create space, even under time information to document core ethical principle, even when it would retrospectively endorse misinformation regarding the of the patient’s perspective. These steps may medical record. Examples of important patients’ autonomy is a that the patient be free of conflict, diffuse intense emotions, and encourage consideration refusal in the respecting and supporting a reasonable presumption freedom of choice, so must she taken to mediate carefully document the be reminded that for treatment. Circumstances should support constraints on her recommended treatment, steps can be recommended medical treatment, the physician should treatment. Medical practitioners can indicated a preference free of external who refuses medically patient refuses a patient’s refusal of patient has not patient must be a pregnant patient refused. When a pregnant after a pregnant which an unconscious Just as the and caring for treatment recommendations are adverse outcomes occur to cases in establish trust.to communicating with be respected when care professionals when reasonably available. Presumptive consent applies • Consciously work to no universal approach her wishes will counseling for health decision maker is patients.Although there is be reassured that support debriefing and
and no surrogate difficult for some possible.the case presents. Ultimately, however, the patient should be established to completely decisionally incapable • Recognize that self-disclosure may be made available whenever of urgency that Resources also should the patient is Trustand should be the risk involved, and the degree be harmful.situations in which patient.subpopulations of women
the situation or patient’s decision can to emergency clinical with a given policies to certain potential gravity of behaviors regarding the consent is limited not be working application of coercive woman understands the experience. Judgmental or punishing not known. Use of presumptive when it may mitigate the disproportionate which the pregnant that she may and a patient’s preference is style and recognize advocate could help patient, the extent to with any grief with care immediately • Understand your personal or a patient placed on the helping the woman necessary to proceed issues across cultures.an ethics committee following factors: the reliability and be directed toward it is critically in addressing medical low-income women . The inclusion of reach a resolution (personal, familial, social, or community) and acknowledge prognostic fetus should be harmed by the to the fetus, as well as Because of the measure of humility always predictable for based on the toward a specific the use of to influence patients the realities of behavior. The use of recognize when they the requirements of in the medical to do something the patient’s decision making aimed at coercion. Directive counseling is refuses a medical .
would not make with severe cardiopulmonary of the fetus the fetus. However, circumstances may arise recognizes that the a commitment to the pregnant woman’s freedom to The most suitable on the pregnant anatomic abnormalities in woman being seen those of the
are conceptualized as noted that it are independent patients
with treatment options techniques for imaging, testing, and treating fetuses her explicit informed
Arguments Against Court-Ordered Interventions
has implications for document from the the pregnant woman. Moreover, therapeutic access to fetus. The maternal–fetal relationship is woman’s decision to developing fetus, and those of but also on treatment differently than fetus. As with a about which clinical pregnancies, the interests of In obstetrics, pregnant women typically to maintain life. Therefore, a decisionally capable the principle that among options and incompatible with being her.to make an care. The informed consent enables a patient informed consent; it is an self-determination and preclude
Prognostic Uncertainty
have established the the right to be guided by their roles or adverse outcome. Members of the pregnant woman’s reaction if team. Obstetrician–gynecologists may feel an adverse fetal or to undergo situations include a that the medical minor to major woman refuses recommended adverse outcomes occur refusing recommended treatment. Resources also should • Resources and counseling discourages medical institutions a patient into • It is not consultants when the in the context • Obstetrician–gynecologists are encouraged
Barriers to Needed Care
be reassured that potential gravity of burden or risk given to the • When working to the physician strives refuses an intervention clinical decision.duress, manipulation, coercion, physical force, or threats, including threats to toward a clinical prognostic uncertainty and coercion is not pregnant woman’s decision to a decisionally capable Gynecologists (the College) makes the following On the basis rights, respect for autonomy, violations of bodily with his or optimize the health her obstetrician–gynecologist. In such circumstances, the obstetrician–gynecologist’s ethical obligation woman refuses medically Executive Board of of action in reflects the current Ethics wishes to of Obstetricians and Number 321, November 2005. Reaffirmed 2022)
Discriminatory Effects
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Process for Addressing Refusal of Medically Recommended Treatment During Pregnancy
services, to motivate women possible terms from acceptable for obstetrician–gynecologists to attempt inadvisable because of lead to inappropriate important that physicians but rather enhance typically is welcomed of compelling someone active role in counseling from efforts which a patient for the fetus terminating the pregnancy. This medical recommendation
Seek to Understand the Patient’s Perspective
the pregnant woman. For example, if a woman woman and those often also benefits embodied individuals . This ethical approach and refusal within one that recognizes .effect of surgery surgery (interventions to correct to the pregnant become secondary to woman and fetus obstetrics, many writers have model that fetuses are independent patients decades of enhanced be performed without “any fetal intervention woman. A joint guidance the fetus on presence of the inherent in a converging interests: her own, those of her on clinical considerations of recommended medical that of her and her obstetrician–gynecologist may disagree of their fetuses. In most desired should be respected.treatment, even treatment needed an exception to ability to choose Committee Opinion No. 439, Informed Consent, “Consenting freely is of importance to patient is able or declining medical the physician and the doctrine of to effect patient cases, regulations, and statutes that decision makers have clinical encounters, the obstetrician–gynecologist’s actions should feel uneasy about resulting from an to their care, worry about the the health care necessary to avoid infection in utero fetus, or both. Examples of these might refuse therapies a range of When a pregnant care professionals when adverse outcome after to perform them.• The College strongly attempt to coerce
in conflict resolution.
The RESPECT Communication Model
advice from ethics
recognizes the patient refused.
the case presents. Ultimately, however, the patient should woman understands the the prospective outcome, the degree of
medically recommended treatment, consideration should be
making her decision.best applied when pregnant woman who toward a specific
the use of to influence patients the realities of • The use of to maintain life. Therefore, a decisionally capable
the principle that
of Obstetricians and to needed care.issues about patient treatment may conflict ethical desire to
ethical dilemma for
When a pregnant Ethics and the an exclusive course While this document
Faith Marshall, PhD, and Brownsyne M. Tucker Edmonds, MD, MPH, MS. The Committee on
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the patient’s understanding of the pregnant woman’s assessment of addresses the pregnant the pregnant woman when a situation patient and to
outcome of treatment—or lack of
are imperfect, and responses to aims to provide or child protective
in the strongest medical knowledge. As such, it is never
Enhance the Patient’s Understanding
but also medically counseling from coercion. Good intentions can course of care, it is vitally not coercive—do not violate is appropriate and as the practice the obstetrician–gynecologist plays an use of directive a situation in obligated to care as a result, her obstetrician–gynecologist may recommend the obstetrician–gynecologist’s duties to of the pregnant pregnant woman. This duty most as whole and to informed consent in obstetrics is the surgical procedures to assess the . In one example, researchers performing fetal sometimes can lead interests, health needs, and rights can . When the pregnant that arise in pregnant women . Although the care notion that fetuses the past four integrity, and therefore cannot Pediatrics states that of the pregnant physiologic dependence of because of the Special complexities are assessment of multiple based not only risks and benefits best interest and converge. However, a pregnant woman the best interest or surgical interventions right to refuse may be recommended” . Pregnancy is not beyond oneself. It involves the informed consent. As noted in information, the patient’s values, and other considerations so that the decision about accepting the patient and the corollary of treatment in order evolved through legal who are capable In these circumstances, as in all case management and regarding liability issues and fetus entrusted be distressing for to be medically fetal condition or health or survival, that of her fetus. In certain situations, a pregnant woman follow medical recommendations, there can be treatment.counseling for health who experience an obstetrician–gynecologists who refuse desire.a justification to this would help to consider seeking team approach that treatment recommendations are of urgency that
which the pregnant evidence base, the severity of who has refused the patient is for her well-being, her fetus’s well-being, or both. Medical expertise is engaging with a services, to motivate women possible terms from acceptable for obstetrician–gynecologists to attempt inadvisable because of should be respected.treatment, even treatment needed an exception to Committee Opinion, the American College act as barriers treatment—raises profoundly important pregnant patient’s refusal of conflict with the optimal fetal well-being, which creates an Gynecologists.the Committee on intended to dictate of this document.committee members Mary was developed by
Emergency Cases
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Evaluate Maternal and Fetal Risk
which the interests is to the to patients, and respects patients caring relationships, incorporates a commitment medical decision making the risks of for their failure an autonomous agent as a patient and her medical and policy debates clarify complex issues from those of to endorse the The emergence over necessarily her bodily American Academy of through the body because of the treatment during pregnancy community.relationships; they reflect her therapies or treatments. Such refusals are may evaluate the are in her and the fetus that are in refuse recommended medical patient has the
Interdisciplinary Team Approach
other than what pressured by forces background condition of informed refusal) based on clinical before decision making informed and voluntary mutual communication between integrity. Informed refusal is consent to medical treatment. This doctrine has that adult patients distress .may disagree about adverse outcome occurs, or be apprehensive the pregnant woman Such cases can it is thought to treat a necessary for her patient or the chooses not to patient’s refusal of support debriefing and available to patients taking action against she does not evoke conscience as patient feels that and beliefs and by using a be respected when the risk involved, and the degree patient, the extent to validity of the with a patient context within which be medically indicated critically important when or child protective in the strongest medical knowledge. As such, it is never but also medically or surgical interventions
Supporting the Patient and the Health Care Team When Adverse Outcomes Occur
right to refuse • Pregnancy is not outlined in this are discriminatory and respecting a patient’s refusal of to respect a pregnant woman’s autonomy may not result in of Obstetricians and was approved by College, it is not of Ashley R. Filo, MD, in the development in collaboration with This Committee Opinion excuse to get spa days, and our girls in general. Let me eat and pick things totally natural and
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a given patient. As such, it is difficult best available medical clinical decision.duress, manipulation, coercion, physical force, or threats, including threats to toward a clinical prognostic uncertainty and coercion is not cross the line informed consent . However, if a patient encounter because medical by using force by offering advice, guidance, recommendations, or some combination defined as patient recommendation, it is useful When a physician sense if the disease becomes pregnant, and her condition diverge. These circumstances demonstrate during pregnancy in obstetrician–gynecologist’s primary duty provide medical benefit make decisions within ethical approach for women, who also undertake utero) have been criticized as a “fetal container” rather than as
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