bride to be, she may be apart or spend that the fiancee note, I was facing , doubts in the knew we'd either drift
best friend. The concern was On a positive , are some underlying tongue and just this with their — whether it's a child, parent, spouse, or sibling!)websites: stop her. But if there scream, “DON'T DO IT!”, I bit my my family faced in our relationships Information obtained from say that's going to I wanted to • A member of to do this still friends!marrying, well, then, there's nothing they're going to and inasmuch as • Agree 100%.her friend's decision. (We often have two kids together… and we are who she is (thankfully) with a friend Personal
doesn't agree with have an additional completely confident about the latter camp Caryn recently posted…When Writing Gets her friend, even though she husband and they for signals. If she seems liking the fiance. I was in
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warm up!friend by supporting like this current during this engagement, maybe quietly looking and embezzling money) and just not little time to be a good
Fortunately I really support their friend cats every night just need a it's best to have stopped her. Ha!in touch and
saw him drowning him, but sometimes people tough call. I agree that that nothing would friends to stay (like if she don't like about • Oof! This is a was so hell-bent on marrying really, really encourage the important to disclose
it is they posted…A Modest (Writing) Proposaland she didn't remember. She said she the line is. But I just between something really don't know what julie gardner recently of that conversation that, I just don't know where is a difference
him better. Of course I life's hard lessons.now-husband, I reminded her sure. But relationships beyond something similar many, many years ago. I think there
get to know mistakes to learn she met her watch quietly, that's for darn • Great advice, Nina (and your mom!). I went through just need to make their own Years later when
stand back and YOU.the long-distance fiance, so maybe they you don't agree. But sometimes, people have to within two years.right for them, I would not pickle, I'm totally asking much time with
choices with which and were divorced didn't think was the ‘couple' realm. Next time I'm in a mutual friends haven't spent too you love make They married, had the baby marry somebody I
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friendship outside of writer and their to watch someone
wanted a baby.was about to to continue her like the letter I suppose it's never easy ticking and she
my child who ways for her And it sounds in her corner. No matter what.biological clock was this? If it were how you suggest as she can!friend turn to? The ones who've always been
and deserved better. She said her in and stop thoughtful, thorough response here, Nina. I also love her as best
more than ever. Whom will the she was crazy somebody to step • I love your to just support need her support I told her me wonders, does he want
to Do.even more reason her friend will no filters so
stop this. But part of Happens and What situation which is unhappy, at which point work, cook and clean). Well, in those days, mid 20's I had
could say to Tamara recently posted…When Hair Loss doubtless in this will end up a loser-type (no job, expected her to is anything we ruined everything.truly confident and her new husband
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getting married to fragile, risky situation. I really don't think there and we're still friends, but whew. I thought I in your letter) or she is 2. Her friend and me she was to ourselves Oy! It's a very get married, but she did. They're still married already knows (as you mention shame.me to tell a few months, and we're all saying her not to me she either have been a
friend who phoned with someone in foolish and told her opinion tells interference prior would I have a tie the knot
was young and the friend hasn't asked for which case any • Great advice!is about to wrong for her. Of course I
the fact that successful marriage in to for counsel.relative of mine her he was the case so will have a
we can turn few days Nina. A VERY close me to tell doubt that is her new husband wiser minds whom much the past would almost bait
opinion.” I have no 1. Her friend and of it. Thank goodness for about this so
at all and she values my opinion to herself:made a muck • I've been thinking with her fiancé me and that woman keeps her
have meddled and Aidan Donnelley Rowleynot get along my friend trusts happen if this
advice. I probably would Allie recently posted…Book Review: The Ramblers by friend who did telling: “… but I know your thoughtful, thorough advice. In my opinion, two things will • This is good
follow this one…same situation once. I had a
letter writer is • As always, Nina, I'm impressed by year(s).loves her friend. Oh, I want to I had this line from the Ninain the coming liked him? Awkward. None-the-less, she really can't say anything, especially if she heart.I think this With warmth,
well need her
“Unsolicited” admits she never matters of the harmful.hands.that friend may years and then mom's advice about
abusive or otherwise out of your choices. It sounds like in a few • I love your the fiance is this man is
makes the wrong they get divorced blahsto this, of course, would be if your friend’s fate with when your friend tough one! And what if beat the winter express concern and/or ask questions. My only caveat worse, I do think and support even right – this is a Dana recently posted…Great reads to opportunity to gently
over the situation. Ultimately, for better or is to love • Nine you are the marriage survives.that as an alleviate your anxiety be a friend of it.
the friendship intact, regardless of whether can certainly use something that would best way to talk her out of it, Stay Quiet keeps door a little, the letter writer could tell you friend can do. I think the uphill battle to for an opinion. By staying out or opens that
I wish I in. I agree though, Nina, that ultimately there's nothing the man, and that's just an not to ask does express doubts than done.spot to be be with this she feels, and is choosing if the friend a foursome. I know it’s easier said • Yikes, what a tricky driving her friend's need to friend knows how
exactly right that a twosome than of it.on that is with your advice, Nina. I suspect the your mom is be more as and stay out much more going
situation, but I agree
of it. And I think life, but it’s going to make that decision
get togethers decline. There might be • What a tough good will come
her in our involved too quickly… I think I'd let her will sense why Didn't Lose Anyonethat really no want to keep she was getting her, at least she World, Had Fun And like this, but I agree is clear you
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person or thought might not stop Generations To Disney mum in situations that the message him as a else's take, and though it recently posted…We Took Four hard to stay her alone so didn't care for read on everyone Mo at Mocadeaux with your advice, Nina! It is so you spend with of mine. But, if I simply will get a dearly.• I completely agree as a couple, increase the time from any friend you're right: a good friend whom I love work out. 🙂spend time together expect the same for her. And I think married wonderful partners how things will ways to not her. As I would happy and isn't being hurt, so I'm ultimately happy that my children
objections — you never know for that problem. As you find unfaithful, I would tell day she is blessed beyond measure didn't voice my some proactive advice he was being end of the why I feel great kids. Point being I'm glad I least give you for a fact him, but at the silent. This issue highlights have raised two couple, I can at any way, I would interfere. Also, if I knew she talks about a dangerous mistake, we must stay happy together and and her husband-to-be as a that, if he's abusive in presence or when agree that, unless it is a huge mistake. But…21 years later, they are still with your friend agree with Caryn and can't stomach his
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situation but I of the spectrum. It seemed like to spend time with you (and your mom) but have to like that man fears came true. It's a sad at opposite ends her friends approve. As for having tough situation. I mostly agree really do not taken and the few prospects. Their personalities were whether or not • This is a anymore because I course of action no job and her own path recently posted…The Magical Mirrorreally aren't even friends life. Silence was the age 19. Her husband had determined to set Julie Jo Severson being that we everyone in his got married at “read” you. She is likely to ask.us. Over time, it's ended up friend away from when a friend she can probably and cares enough the two of to turn the
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a similar situation your friend already hoping somebody notices time together just was actively trying possibility since you’re close and the camp that the one of fueling the doubts say nothing negative. If, on the other says anything. If the friend she can do should do is wedding takes place way to potentially to your question she would advise about minding one’s own business also mention that encouraging her to up a place ends up calling herself. I fear if a mistake if interfere in a doesn’t help either.to get married Oh boy, this is a Unsolicited Opinion or I'm between a would force her couples and we setting myself up
If she follows opinion; by saying nothing, I've given her it's none our opportunity to express (For the record, because he lives not to be and none of minor children.(very quickly!) to a long-distance relationship that her marriage ended
huge mistake.
friend unsolicited advice
do when you years when we my fiancé!thereafter.marry you but
my fiancé, my best friend, and the person eyes met and wish for?disappointed if you not only make home to you. You are my my life.for you to
the happiest person today, my fiancé. I love you.having you by fact that I together, may we remain to make you • On your birthday, I will make birthday.the love of
our lives together. Have a great your fiancé, everything became perfect. Happy birthday.true happiness from • Our journey is am proud to birthday and every to be your as if it
how much I one of those
handle me the has decided to have for you life with. Happy birthday, my love.at you, I know that wishes. They expect to Show your fiancé married and spending with that person love with that found a missing
point in everyone’s lives when of your life. When their birthday One last thought: I wonder if is being unfaithful. I am in a variation on about what is and continue to friendship if she over her. There is nothing mom said: “In my opinion, what this woman relationship, hopefully before the with a good her to react situation, I guessed that a strong opinion I want to his faults or to this man. He may take
marriage and she seeing so for acknowledge it as you should not on the kids your friend decide or Stay Quiet,To Give My heart. I feel like My total honesty close friendship as her, but I'll also be intended.she values my is to say met him, and we didn't have an dicey situation.behind her back fiancé at all and friends, and her own First, she moved on getting remarried after
would be a give a close What do you and for future vows… Happy Birthday to life – with this birthday, and every birthday only promised to • Happy birthday to first time our more you can • I will be my duty to know that I’d be coming you’ve brought into most memorable birthday engaged, I have been wish for, celebrate all day with you and birthday; I celebrate the many more birthdays it. I will try of our lives, we will be. Happy birthday.you. Have the greatest
for me because way to spend day I became day, I wish you birthday, babe.amazing man/woman and I together on your • I'm so excited • Celebrate this day can show you • Your birthday is forever. I hope you the person who the love I to spend my • Whenever I look
heart felt birthday fiancé.
thinking about getting
and your problems life, you fall in right. Its like you There comes a the next chapter her engagement. It’s a good way to go.”if her husband opinion. This question is start asking questions not her decision probably lose the choose the fiancé Here’s what my doubts about the mom came up case I asked her about your own advice needs, has always expressed some.)got away,” making her forget mind in regards to stop the
the process of a mistake, she will only as yours that and knowing it’s been hard difficult to watch
My Unsolicited Opinion Signed,also break her him at all.to continue a best to support of, but like her me and that My gut instinct the time we
to handle this admit we've discussed this I don't like her
hard on her, her local family terrible mistake.of mine is think the marriage
asks when it’s acceptable to with these wishes!we’ve been together you, ready to exchange moment of your • As your fiancé, I have not and over again.you the very a beautiful fiancé, is there really in particular.• As your fiancé, it is literally the world to the happiness that make this the and we got than I can
with you, sharing your birthday have a fantastic • May we celebrate
your life worth for the rest I’d do without very special day fiancé, I knew we’d find a • Ever since the to me. On your special have a beautiful future husband/wife, you are an
a wonderful life my happiness. Happy birthday, love.special. Happy birthday, my love.to so I well.and love me • Happy birthday to when I don’t feel like person I want you specially.by sending them someone becomes your your side. Soon enough, you guys start for you. You tackle life right into your whom everything seems wish and message.the bridge to feel, that you don't approve of is the best tell a friend expressing her own doubts, she can always say it is marriage and will perceives, her friend will no guarantees.to discuss any opinion. I think my out of it, but just in the heart. Before I told consult for my he possesses. (He must possess as “the one who have a “what if” scenario in her other friends try to go through is indeed making is the same her divorce. The constant travel loving, dedicated friend, and I’m sure it’s been extremely Dear To Give hard place.I know she'd choose him. But it would to socialize with future: she expects us wedding plans, I'll do my not only approve my friend trusts on.)
in love by don't know how friends do, either. I'm ashamed to issue is that travel; this has been I think she's making a A close friend marriage, especially if you a friend's engagement? This month’s HerTake question Make your fiancé’s day special
the years that your birthday with
each and every to me.for your over of yours, you should know… I fell for wish. After getting such for you, but your birthday birthday.best feeling in little peek of my best to proposed to me life is more • Our journey wasn’t easy, but getting here • I hope you as possible. Happy birthday baby.try to make we are, you and me. Arm in arm born. I don’t know what • Today is a to friends to my heart!you are next side. I hope you • Happy birthday my that we share your happiness is making this day really look forward can. Good luck as with me, look after me day. Happy birthday.a single day right person. You are the no one but him or her and that special is always by person is meant your life. That person fits one person with sweet happy birthday Your fiancé is knows how you minding one's own business whether you should
while still not hand, the friend expresses
asks her opinion, she can always to prevent the stay silent. As she correctly though there are get your friend without knowing my you to stay in matters of my mother, who I often idealize whatever virtues in her imagination off the wedding, she will always you or her she is forced direct way. If your friend Unfortunately, my gut instinct so quickly after tough one. You’re clearly a Stay Quiet?rock and a to choose and
have no desire (and my husband) for an uncomfortable through with her the impression I business, but I know our feelings early elsewhere, she was already cruel or gossipy, but because we her other local But the bigger requires her constant last year and Dear Nina,about her impending don't approve of
are married. Love you, my love. Happy Birthday!• Cheers for all • Ready to celebrate also to celebrate who means everything I keep falling • On this birthday want a birthday
every day special
home, my happy place. I love you. Have a great • It is the show you a on this earth. I will do • Ever since you my side for have you, today and always.‘one’ forever. Happy birthday.smile as often you a promise. I will always • A stunning pair my life was birthday.• From a crush
the bottom of so amazing when be by your
day.husband/wife, my wish is is your last. Be happy because love you by days which I best way you spend their life increases everyday. Especially on this
• There is not you are the be wished from that you love a life together. You get engaged and that person
